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NormalPaYtan t1_iuj2g7p wrote

Is there some kind of "straight camp" but for men who can't last in bed?

I can personally go on for a pretty long while if I focus on the "mechanics" of the sex (enough to please my wife), but if I adjust my mindset to focus on my own pleasure I cum in a matter of seconds - and if I didn't know how to jump between those mindsets I don't know what I would do.

Therefore I don't see how counting is in any way WORSE than premature ejaculation. Would you care to elaborate what your solution is?

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Important-Aside-507 t1_iuj4kh5 wrote

Exactly. You don’t distract yourself with math and numbers, you focus on your partner and making them happy. That’s all I mean to say. If I’m with someone who’s so busy trying to just last forever instead of making me happy, I’d be upset. It sounds like the goal is to last as long as possible instead of just make each other happy.

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