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So what you’re saying is to think about math instead of your partner and your partners needs. Got it. I tip my fedora to you my lord.

Yea. Much rather would burn my dick from masturbating to get desensitized than do this

Her: Why did you yell 456.44 when you came?

Him: No reason...

You're gonna be at a point in the process where lasting as long as possible IS taking care of your partner's needs. That's when you bust out this LPT.

So we are going to pretend the guys who know math have sex and the guys having sex know math?

You can also use prime numbers to vary the number of thrusts before you change tempo/position, thus making the love session more dynamic for your partner.

Did it once and lost my hard-on. Had to sit down at the desk with a pen & and paper and solve the equation

I always start reciting pie until I’m finished.

3.14. Ironically the same as my length.

Well I keep that in mind when applicable maybe I try to solve the time dependent Schrodinger equation...

Pretty sure I couldn’t focus on sex and math at the same time. If I tried this the sex would just stop.

Why would I want to last WAY longer? If I go one second longer than an hour I get charged for another hour.

I was on holiday with the boys and my girlfriend asked if I thought about her much. Apparently, "Only if I don't want to cum too quickly" was not the right answer.

I don’t think most men have this issue. If you can’t last long enough to please your partner thats a YOU issue. It doesn’t happen often.

>If you can’t last long enough to please your partner thats a YOU issue

And this LPT could be the solution - or are men not supposed to solve their problems/issues?

I never said men didn’t have issues they couldn’t solve. I’m saying this is a deeper issue. If you cannot last long enough to please your partner that you go to counting, which is only going to distract you from pleasing your partner, then maybe you need to find help in a different place, that isn’t doing math.

If I had a nickel for every time my wife said why do you have that confused look on your face, I wouldn't know how much money I had cuz I'm that bad at math.

Is there some kind of "straight camp" but for men who can't last in bed?

I can personally go on for a pretty long while if I focus on the "mechanics" of the sex (enough to please my wife), but if I adjust my mindset to focus on my own pleasure I cum in a matter of seconds - and if I didn't know how to jump between those mindsets I don't know what I would do.

Therefore I don't see how counting is in any way WORSE than premature ejaculation. Would you care to elaborate what your solution is?

The best way to "last" longer is to focus on your partner. One: it helps them to reach their climax and two: keeps your focus where it does the most good.

And the seconds you last?

And this is the final nail in the coffin (leaves this sub forever).

And # of pumps

That's great for you. Statistically, though, men typically last around five minutes in bed, while women typically take around thirteen minutes to climax. Additionally, women can orgasm multiple times in a row, which means that the duration of sex is typically limited by male endurance.

Now, statistically, you could be outperforming the average male, in which case hats off to you. More likely than not, on the other hand, you're either suffering from an inflated perception of your own performance, or your female partners are misleading you about their degree of satisfaction and you can stand to perform better.

Glad that they did math.

Well due to previous porn addiction i can now last however long i want to. I am basically like a pornstar. But i also have to be in mood for it, otherwise i can only get it up to like 70%

Considering I’m a female neither are correct. I’m just saying that distraction from your partner by math is going to frustrate them. Statistically men don’t last long sure, but in practice I’ve never seen anything less than 20min. Guess I’m just lucky.

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Exactly. You don’t distract yourself with math and numbers, you focus on your partner and making them happy. That’s all I mean to say. If I’m with someone who’s so busy trying to just last forever instead of making me happy, I’d be upset. It sounds like the goal is to last as long as possible instead of just make each other happy.

They're going to be distracted while they're busy having a string of huge orgasms themselves?

If your partner notices you're distracted, you're doing it wrong.

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You could, ya know, just learn dick control.

Is baseball no longer the go-to?

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I always found it weird that other guys cum so fast. I can cum on demand.

Easier trick: when you feel you're about to reach the point of no return, touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth.

Learned that one reading about tantra; supposedly it works by affecting chi flow, or maybe it's just a distracting sensation, but regardless it works for me and keeps me in the moment and attentive to my partner and sensations rather than, basically, dissociating out of the situation with distracting thoughts.

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Less than 3.14

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