fckinfast4 t1_iugalgx wrote on October 31, 2022 at 2:27 AM

Depends on how you would describe your mental health and whether you are an introvert or an extrovert

aaronwcampbell t1_iugdjjb wrote on October 31, 2022 at 2:50 AM

And male or female. If you moved there for school or a job, you might start by making connections there.

Hairy_Otter00 OP t1_iuho0la wrote on October 31, 2022 at 12:32 PM

That's a good point. I used to say I was an introvert but I think I fall more towards the middle than I give myself credit for. I like to be alone to an extent, and I am trying to get more comfortable with it as others have suggested, but I also enjoy being with people and am trying to make new friends and communities in this new city.

dlongwing t1_iuj7xz6 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 7:06 PM

It's a misconception that Introverts don't like people. Introverts can be very sociable. Introvert vs. Extrovert is about where you get your energy and where you spend it. Introverts recharge by having time alone. Extroverts recharge by spending time with others.

If having time alone is draining, you're an extrovert. If you like people/crowds but need to take a break after an hour or two, you're likely an introvert.