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CrimsonKepala t1_iuex9sp wrote

Yesssssss. I get reminders from family to tell someone happy birthday when I was already going to, lol. I never say "I know" so that I don't sound rude but it's every single time. It feels like it was my idea originally but after "needing" a reminder, it ends up feeling like I'm doing it because someone told me to.

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mushy_friend t1_iuezre8 wrote

Lol I get this feeling a lot too, or even when someone wishes a person on the group chat before I've done it personally, then it just feels like I'm doing it because they did it

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