Just cry, be sad about it, try something new you’ve wanted to try, do the date by yourself, journal. Ghosting sucks, let yourself feel the feelings. Maybe he’s a bad guy, maybe not, but the focus can’t be whether or not that’s true. Just let yourself feel sad because you got let down on something you were excited about. It’s a loss in a sense, and that’s okay to grieve for a little. If you don’t, this is how “hurt people, hurt people”