The problem most men have is that they loose all brain function when they see a woman who they are interested in. It is veery easy though.

All you need to do is stop trying to make things happen, see her as the person she is and listen. Stop trying to steer the conversation, don't underestimate her. If you can't get a proper chat going, you wont get anything else and don't try to make a chat happen if it's just not a vibe.

Learn to deal with rejection. Sex isn't as important as the person before you and make sure you seperate on friendly terms, maybe there will be a cool friendship happen, but only if you stop thinking with your dick.

Women aren't puzzles to solve. They are people, there IS NO CODE OR CERTAIN WAY BECAUSE EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT!

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Sincerly,

A Transman, i lived both, i have the cheat code.

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Edit: and if a woman finds you creepy, there is ZERO! you can do about it because its subjective.