ThisSorrowfulLife t1_j12p0as wrote on December 21, 2022 at 5:47 AM

Depends on the situation. Closure is really necessary. I wouldn't expect a "done and ghost" unless there is physical abuse, infidelity or illegal activity. Closure is 100% expected and needed, imo.

kempff t1_j1346w9 wrote on December 21, 2022 at 8:56 AM

I disagree. I'm old, it's late, and I'm tired. Closure is never necessary.

ThisSorrowfulLife t1_j13c8ao wrote on December 21, 2022 at 10:49 AM

That just shows that you didn't care in the first place and can't make emotional connections.

kempff t1_j14p9uw wrote on December 21, 2022 at 5:27 PM

What a relief. For a moment there I thought you were going to accuse me of being an immature emotionally needy manchild who is clueless about why anyone would dump him.