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No-Temperature-8772 t1_j28tymh wrote

Definitely ask the person who told you this to go into detail. Ask what habits or incidents have given that impression and work on it. It's one thing to act friendly, but people will always perceive what's really going on. I know someone who is very polite but also acts condescending at the worst times. It cancels out good manners in the long run.

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wantAdvice13 t1_j29ym1f wrote

That’s a great way to be interested in other people. If they told you something you don't understand, ask nicely why, then the conversation starts flowing.

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