This tip really ignores the reality a lot of people are going through. I was with my wife for ten years before I got suspicious, and I caught her because I went into her social media. I couldn't 'just break up' and if I'd confronted her she would have gaslit me (she gaslit me when I confronted her with PROOF but without the proof the gaslighting would have worked.) We have a child and a home and a life I couldn't just walk away from because of suspicions. I really felt like I was being a paranoid creep when I finally dipped into her social media, but there it was in full color, a photo of her and her best friend naked together that they'd sent to my best friend. God, that was not a good day.

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Anyway, five years later, that friend is out of her life, we're still together and I don't know if I'll ever fully trust anyone again. Yay. Your advice is bad.