This is like when people say promise you won't get mad. You're seeking to control the person before you even reveal the thing they react to. A text is not face to face or ear to ear communication no matter how much you want it to be. It does not require immediate response, if you need immediate response then call or talk to people face to face. It is not their job to placate you or follow your rules. So next time on read think about if you need to call them, if not then calm your tits