Have you spoken to him directly? God I hope so. And I hope some day you realize you never have to set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. He could have rented a room at the airport hotel. No one needs to inconvenience you to this level.

Personally I would call him back and tell him or text him, I’m not comfortable w someone in my home when I’m not there, especially since we don’t have a personal relationship. My home will not be available to you in the 16th. (Insert date here).

then when the relatives start up say you can all pitch in $50 and rent him a room. My home is not a hostel and I was foolish to consider this for even a moment.