EnjoysYelling t1_j67v42v wrote
Reply to comment by Eifuku2003 in LPT: If you are woman on a dating app add a photo of you and your dad where your dad looks like hes proud of you by Lord_of_the_THOTS
Definitely NOT what OP thinks.
OP thinks that this will help ward off predatory men.
Some men subscribe to the notion that women without their fathers in their lives have weaker boundaries with men and/or are unconsciously seeking their father’s approval in their relationships.
OP thinks that demonstrating a positive relationship with your father will signal to these kinds of men that you are a “harder target” and not worth pursuing.
OP has yet to realize that actually having and maintaining boundaries long enough to build trust is the real solution to this problem.
antil0l t1_j69af6n wrote
if you think about it, you just said the exact same thing as the other comment but longer
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