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Efficient_Sector_870 t1_j674m3q wrote
I don't think women need help on dating apps.
sleeplessjade t1_j675jba wrote
Do you think men should have pictures with their mothers showing they’re proud of them?!
chijrt t1_j675w2f wrote
What's your next tip? Have your dad tuck you and your boyfriend in every night?
Remarkable-Way4986 t1_j6765hx wrote
Honestly is the best when looking for a potential life partner. A picture of your father scowling with a shot gun will let them know what will happen if they fuck around with your heart. This coming from a father with a daughter.
RegalBeagleKegels t1_j676s9t wrote
beaverbait t1_j677jmy wrote
That sounds kind of nice. Nobody ever tucks me in anymore.
DowntownLizard t1_j6788x9 wrote
No what if she likes my mom more than me
justafreespirithere t1_j67bc9f wrote
False you only need to see me and my mother to know I age well.
safe4werq t1_j67br19 wrote
Can you make the implicit point explicit please? Why should people do this. To hopefully convince people to not harass them? Or what?
HarietsDrummerBoy t1_j67ecf0 wrote
What if I like her dad more than her?
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MizTheWitWiz t1_j67hpl3 wrote
“Daddy”
“Daddy?”
“Are you proud of me now daddy?!”
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Lord_of_the_THOTS OP t1_j67prln wrote
A good profile will increase the quality of the matches and the comcersations. Getting likes doesnt mean shit if they dont see you as relationship material.
Eifuku2003 t1_j67t1kp wrote
Since OP does not seem to be inclined to elaborate. I believe he thinks that through some evolutionary psychological mechanism men will take you more "seriously."
(Not agreeing with this, just trying to help)
EnjoysYelling t1_j67v42v wrote
Definitely NOT what OP thinks.
OP thinks that this will help ward off predatory men.
Some men subscribe to the notion that women without their fathers in their lives have weaker boundaries with men and/or are unconsciously seeking their father’s approval in their relationships.
OP thinks that demonstrating a positive relationship with your father will signal to these kinds of men that you are a “harder target” and not worth pursuing.
OP has yet to realize that actually having and maintaining boundaries long enough to build trust is the real solution to this problem.
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victoriaa- t1_j6869ga wrote
What in the cel?
This is some gross sexism. It’s like you need some weird approval from another man and your too lazy to get to know someone yourself. Can we stop attaching a women’s value to other men?
victoriaa- t1_j686nrw wrote
Taking pictures with your guns as a thinly veiled threat is creepy and cringe as hell, don’t take them out if you aren’t cleaning or shooting it. Shooting accidents happen from people who take them out without purpose or to show off in a picture
Also not having a father doesn’t mean it’s a free pass to fuck with women, maybe she’s armed herself or can protect herself
Oudeis16 t1_j6885nf wrote
This reads like you personally have a specific fetish you're hoping to satisfy more.
BAustinCeltic t1_j688eff wrote
Wait am I in r/shittylifeprotips ?
Karnezar t1_j68a2ec wrote
I wonder if this post is a social experiment to see how people make assumptions based on limited context.
Robozomb t1_j68b35r wrote
Thanks for your input Lord of the Thots
[deleted] t1_j68cq4u wrote
So basically what you are saying is that men will respect me more if it seems like my own father does? This is just another instance of men not respecting women. It happens all the time. I don't know how many times I asked my maintenance guy to fix my outside light because I'm a single woman and I come home by myself sometimes at night. It didn't happen for months. Same maintenance guy came over a couple weeks ago and I mentioned that my grown son was really worried about me because the light isn't working yet and guess what? Light was fixed in 20 minutes. Some men care about what other men think, even when they aren't present, more than actually respecting a woman or treating her like a human being on her own. Sad.
Teh_Beavs t1_j68em0g wrote
I’ll tuck you in (apparently your name worked)
speckledpumpkinn t1_j68g4zl wrote
You seem to viewing this from the assumption that all women in dating apps are looking for a relationship. Women like having casual sex, too.
speckledpumpkinn t1_j68ge6w wrote
> What in the cel?
brb gonna steal this 😂😂
speckledpumpkinn t1_j68h1zz wrote
the assumption here being that women are on dating apps solely to find a husband. People can't fathom the idea women might like causal sex
victoriaa- t1_j68hiez wrote
Haha be my guest, it’s the best response to incel comments
dinkyyo t1_j68ihk4 wrote
Efficiently shows the issues she’ll be bringing in to the relationship.
bulgogie_bulldoggie t1_j68otcg wrote
The reason for this (which is genius) is to signal healthy family relationship and upbringing and to ward off products of broken families who are attracted to the likes of themselves
L_O_Quince t1_j68pj20 wrote
You haven't had many dates meet your mother, have you?
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Pristine_Power_8488 t1_j6961kr wrote
Not if you are Ghislaine Maxwell.
recjus85 t1_j697ixe wrote
Probably the dumbest LPT I've seen on here. And that's sad..
obnoxiousab t1_j69af2v wrote
I love LPTs where the OP gives zero explanation as to why it’s an LPT, how it could help, etc.
antil0l t1_j69af6n wrote
if you think about it, you just said the exact same thing as the other comment but longer
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NoWorthierTurnip t1_j69n74g wrote
I took it as “prove you don’t have daddy issues” thing.
No_more_Whippits4u t1_j69xz40 wrote
This should be posted in r/ShittyLifeProTips
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boing757 t1_j6a9ity wrote
You're serious aren't you ?
nofatchicks22 t1_j6abkqs wrote
Are you going to elaborate as to why you think women should do this?
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lilyraine-jackson t1_j6afqj0 wrote
Why do you think everyone just has a photo like that lmfao what
kupoface t1_j6al8qs wrote
I've been messaged by a ton of guys in pics with their moms looking proud of them, and then they proceeded to tell me about their penis size and sexually harassing me, but they were just joking so it's okay.
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jpagebjj t1_j6ashg9 wrote
Be honest. Your dad is not proud of you.
ymmotvomit t1_j6ays62 wrote
They’re a rough lot here OP. Take your losses, delete, and run.
Lord_of_the_THOTS OP t1_j6ayuqu wrote
Nah, this is hilarious
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Particular_Special70 t1_j6b5utp wrote
Jokes on you, my dad's not proud of me. 😂
Lord_of_the_THOTS OP t1_j6baqui wrote
My dads dead
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curiously_insane t1_j6bawux wrote
Because dads are hot.
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Right?
DamSheAFreakDoe t1_j6bckak wrote
I’m speaking anecdotally here, but women with bad relationships with their father on average have trouble maintaining healthy relationships with men.
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chainsawbobcat t1_j6bj241 wrote
Don't you know A mother's pride is worthless
assinyourpants t1_j6bkigb wrote
What a champion on this one. No, they don’t. Everyone is their own human being.
Ok-Factor2361 t1_j6blbqx wrote
Why would I put extra identifying information in my dating profile? Like ever?
sir-morti t1_j6blt37 wrote
This isn't really the case, if I'm being honest; just more Freudian logic. If someone has a bad relationship with their father, it doesn't mean they think of all men that way. They might have a fear or waryness of men based on past experiences, or will avoid men who seem like they're up to no good. But someone's experience with men isn't entirely shaped by their father; it's shaped by all the men they've met and interacted with.
bigcup321 t1_j6bm266 wrote
I'm not familiar with this kink.
areareputamadre t1_j6bqnmf wrote
Let me guess, your anecdote is 1 person
areareputamadre t1_j6bqvpl wrote
Coming from someone who gets facefucked and writes about it online. Where’s your dad at.
lavasca t1_j6brpgn wrote
Good on you for identifying the best cross posting opportunity ever. :)
bigdickwarrior t1_j6c0m93 wrote
Yaaa no shit but if your father was around at childhood he mounded a lot of subconscious decisions you make
DeterminedTaurus t1_j6c3nip wrote
Horrible relationship with my pos dad and I’m a great partner, so no.
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