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ArianneOakheart t1_j4k6h23 wrote

>Train yourself to immediately start recognizing every instance of care shown towards you

How do I do this?

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Crotchless_Panties t1_j4kbltw wrote

I have found that it is easier and safer to just avoid people, as none of them have ever rewarded me with anything.

To the contrary, I have in-fact received more than my fair share of abuse, neglect, and absolute fuckery any time I have ever been around people.

No thanks!

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kratered- t1_j4kfkm7 wrote

Either you hang out with the wrong people, or you act in some way which leads them to being annoying to you. Life can be very positive if you make it, and friends can multiply that positivity 10 times, good luck

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Crotchless_Panties t1_j4onpan wrote

Ya... It's gotta be a problem with me. You know...because other people can't be creepy and evil.

Thank you for letting me know. I'll steer clear of you too! 👍

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lilaliene t1_j4kdwkn wrote

When i come downstairs, my kids will ask if i want coffee. They know i love coffee, my 5yo can make it even exactly how i like it. My husband has made breakfast and a to go lunch, and takes care of the kids going to school. I just listen to a few stories about dreams, drawings and what they are going to do in school the coming day. Then i go to work.

When i get home, the kids know to let me go out of the hallway (to take off my jacket and shoes) before they can hug and jump on me and tell stuff they are excited about. My eldest will ask what i want to drink (wine, water, soda) and dinner is ready on the table. My husband gets a hugg and kiss and i ask him how he is doing. I ask the kids during dinner, turn based, how their day was. My eldest has ADHD so this way everyone can tell.

Then i go do a few chores my disabled husband cannot do, like laundry. He gets the kids ready for bed. I tell them a story. And then downtime.

It's a day of being cared for and caring for.

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