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arthurwead2 t1_j6lu5cw wrote

maybe start by reflecting on your childhood. has there been instances you saw people in your family or close circle cut people off? is it a trauma response after a big life event in your young life? self reflection is a good start, though i admit i don’t know the answer to your question

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akindofuser t1_j6mporg wrote

If you’re already willing to ghost them give them the opportunity stop first, by asking them to stop.

Also do some self reflecting and make sure you just don’t need to be more tolerant.

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keepthetips t1_j6ltias wrote

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TheDuffness t1_j6luchb wrote

I'm no expert but I have been down this road life and ... experience helps. Ever wish you could take something said back? We are all imperfect and a little grace comes with that SELF realization. Try this, ID the person's motivate, lock it down with more observation, then introspect. Are you taking issue with thier motivation or their method? Their is no moral superior in style of method, what could is a person motivation or thier heart. Be style snob, but realize your very best friend in life doesn't have to like what you eat, style makes things no boring.

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TheLibertariDan t1_j6luneh wrote

You need to look at yourself.

Why do you think they are wrong? Why does that challenge you so much? Are their brags actually expressions of gratefulness? Is there any malice in what they do or say? Are you judging or understanding?

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