upbeat22 t1_ja1ykz0 wrote on February 26, 2023 at 6:04 AM

I dont get all the negativity. How you approach someone or a group depends on how you delier something. Saying this with a smile on your face can get you away with a lot, meaning it is just to have a laugh.

mintysmellshowntell t1_ja2792q wrote on February 26, 2023 at 7:52 AM

"Get you away with a lot"?

What a way to put it when you are trying to argue for this type of thing as justifiably innocent. Not saying it is or isn't, but saying you're "getting away with something" just does nothing to emphasize the innocence of anything

upbeat22 t1_ja2iis7 wrote on February 26, 2023 at 10:19 AM

What are you trying to say?

I just mean to say, and that is how I read the post of OP, is making a joke on something obvious as a way to get introduced and maybe enjoy the company of other people. You can say a lot of things with a smile so people know you are being playful.