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Smoky-Abyss OP t1_j9ms4b0 wrote

Reply to comment by AtlasClone in LPT: Check in with your significant other’s if they seem to stop doing household chores by Smoky-Abyss

I made it specific because I’ve only realized it too late both times. If even one person catches it in time to help and save a good relationship, then it’s worth the specificity

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deoxyribo t1_j9mzij3 wrote

Is it something you would want to save though? Something that you have to figure out like a puzzle? I'm just thinking here and I'm not sure how I feel about it as it has also happened to me as well. But shouldn't it be up to the person to communicate what's wrong in the relationship instead of you having to read signs? I feel like I would be walking on eggshells for the rest of the relationship trying to "catch the signs"?

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Smoky-Abyss OP t1_j9n1n1n wrote

Ideally. Unfortunately , my meltdowns scare my partners and then they stop talking about problems and it’s hard for me to notice the absence of something

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FoldingFan1 t1_j9njfqj wrote

Sounds like that meltdowns are a cause, might be best to focus on getting help with that.

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