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keysandtreesforme t1_jeg8okh wrote

So many considerations... amount of pay increase, shape of your vehicle, missed time with family, if you like to drive, if you like audiobooks/podcasts. People do it for sure, but it's a really personal calculus.

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Wooden-Importance t1_jeg9gmr wrote

One hour and 10 minutes each way is 2 hours and 20 minutes per day of commuting. (in good weather)

A little over 11 1/2 hours per week of commuting. (in good weather)

~50 hours per month of commuting. (in good weather)

You need to consider gas prices and wear and tear on your vehicle.

Whether it's worth it or not is up to you.

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percolate_yer_hate t1_jegby9v wrote

I drove over three hours a day for three years. Would not recommend. It’s exhausting.

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QuartoDeBano t1_jegcow8 wrote

1 hour one way was too much for me. Makes the thought of driving anywhere on the weekend to do something fun appalling

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highriskdriver t1_jegogms wrote

Don’t forget what an horrendous nightmare route one is during the warmer months. Slow ass drivers, limited spots to pass, Reds Eats. Anyone you can car pool with?

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Alaska2Maine t1_jegc04c wrote

In the short term you can do anything for a few months. I used to fly between Portland and Anchorage every 3 weeks for 6 months. I always knew it was temporary though.

But if I were you and you really wanted this job, I’d look into relocating. Spending your days commuting is hell

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woodstove7 t1_jegbsq6 wrote

Having done something similar, the only way to make it worth it would be to line up a set of audio books or podcasts or something of the sort. But even still, long commutes get old.

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area_tribune t1_jegk6o2 wrote

That's a loooong commute.

Edit: And just wait until the tourists hit route one. That's going to add a significant amount of time to that hour and ten.

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philliumm t1_jeglbf6 wrote

Yeah, the addition of the Wiscasset bridge 2x daily in this commute is going to be problematic.

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InterstellarDeathPur t1_jegd87x wrote

My wife used to commute over an hour each way (without traffic) for many years. Bad weather, accidents, a butterfly farts in Japan...and that one way trip can nearly double in duration. The stress ended up affecting her health in the long run, and between that and the affect on family life, she dropped out her career job 100% for more soul satisfying work within a local commute.

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TheDukeofDook t1_jegttpv wrote

I drive 1 hr 7 minutes each way from where I live to Westbrook for less than $20 an hour. I don't go anywhere on the weekend because I'm so sick of driving and don't want the extra wear on the car more than what I'm doing. I've been doing it for a year and a half now. You get used to it but it is never fun. Being gone 11 hours a day everyday (and that's before incorporating after work errands) is challenging.

I am looking for something closer or in a town that I can actually afford to live in

Think hard on whether it is worth it or not

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6byfour t1_jegns45 wrote

I did a 1 hour commute for 20 years. I didn’t think the first job would last long but I stayed 11 years. By then we had attachments in the community we lived in, and my wife worked 5 min from home. I ended up getting another job, also an hour away because that’s where my professional network was.

I was able to do some of my job from the car, like calling contractors etc. I also had customers in my area and on the way, so it was often not a fully wasted trip. It also allowed me to hit certain stores on the way, so if my wife’s aunt likes a restaurant that’s 40 min away for us, I could pop in easily for a gift card. Later, I could occasionally catch my son’s high school sports because they were closer to work than home.

My job was very flexible and I could make up hours at home if I needed to leave early. I now mostly work from home.

So it wasn’t all bad, but some of it was. I figure it cost me an extra car over those years, and it ate a lot of time. I think it impacted our social life a bit because my work friends were out of reach for dinners with spouses, etc. it definitely impacted my health with extra sitting and too much fast food.

2 hours a day *200 work days is 16.7 days on your ass in the car every year. So in my case I’ve blown almost a year of my life driving to work. I get a little bitter when I think about that.

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icey8 t1_jegwnrv wrote

I drive from Ellsworth to auburn every day, a little over 2 hours one way every day (almost 5 hours round trip.) My 8 hour day turns into a 13 hour day. I wake up at 3:30 and get home at 6. In the mornings, it’s great because I have time to drink coffee and wake up. The evenings I unwind and listen to podcasts. You just gotta learn how to enjoy it. But it’s not for everyone.

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icey8 t1_jegwwpj wrote

I will also say, I drive a diesel pickup and it costs about $120 a day in fuel. Make sure your wages will cover the added expense.

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Majestic-Feedback541 t1_jeg8s57 wrote

Totally depends on your personal preferences, gas prices, fuel efficiency, and how much you earn.

Personally, I would hate every single second of that. My car is good enough on gas so I guess I wouldn't care too much about that part. But driving 2 hrs and 20 mins everyday would get super old after the first couple of times... Well ok, I would hate it after I got to work the first day, but I don't like driving much. I prefer to be the passenger on any rides longer than 30 mins lol

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bride123105 t1_jegf1np wrote

30 minutes at the most... Even that gives a lot of people road rage and feeling the need to speed to get it over faster...

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1-900OkFace t1_jegz986 wrote

I drove 99 miles one way from my house i bought in greene to the shipyard in kittery. I left at 4am every day to be there by 6am, earlier if there was a snowstorm. The pay was absolutely worth it until I was pregnant; then the commute became brutal.

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bdana666 t1_jega1zh wrote

9 hours a day is my commute limit.

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standardbanana t1_jegy619 wrote

That sounds like a stretch to me. Then factor in the traffic in Wiscasset during the summer? Oof, hard no for me.

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tdhorus t1_jegz53p wrote

This. OP should seriously consider the traffic debacle in Wiscasset. ~4mos out of the year, there is a chance you will be stuck in traffic around Wiscasset for an additional 20mins. All because of a mediocre lobster roll shack.

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hagak t1_jeh11hm wrote

Everyone has posted most of the big downsides of a long commute. But there are some people dont see or realize right away. Dealing with exceptions to your day. Things like need to meet a plumber, picking up kids, dentist/doctor appt, or even attending after work happy hour or other event. These all become much more complicated when you have a 1+ hour commute.

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siebzy t1_jegd8u4 wrote

I commuted Portland to Augusta for 2 years, it was a bit rough since I worked late fairly often at the time, but totally doable, and with an efficient vehicle (my car gets 33-35 mpg) really not a big deal

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frogyoubuddy t1_jeglnre wrote

All interstate too, so I can imagine it wasn’t too bad.

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siebzy t1_jegnpzx wrote

After basically 3 yrs of working remote tho I wouldn't want to do it again - would have to be a LOT of money

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frogyoubuddy t1_jegqlik wrote

Heck yeah dude, glad you got something remote. After some time that would eventually take a toll, I had about a 25 minute commute from Augusta to Gardiner.

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skininja89 t1_jegxt72 wrote

I used to have an hour commute elsewhere in Maine, and I do not miss it in the slightest. Early mornings followed by late nights punctuated by constantly buying gas and spending more time in my car opposed to time doing literally anything else. Obviously if you don't mind all of that then up to you, but I'd definitely be looking for a shorter commute. That or remote work.

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VinceGchillin t1_jeh18ao wrote

When I first moved to Maine, I commuted from Bangor to Castine. It's a roughly 1-hour drive. Unless it snows. Or it was windy the night before and a tree fell on the highway. Or there were a lot of logging trucks on the road. I did this drive or four years. Yes, it is too long. Of course, the drive is beautiful, and I got through a crazy amount of audiobooks and podcasts. But I commute 20 minutes to Orono now, and can work from home pretty much whenever I want. Having all that commuting time back to be home with my wife and our newborn is worth it, and if I could do anything differently in my life it would be to arrange things so I didn't have to spend all that time just driving.

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ppitm t1_jegcxts wrote

15 minutes

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yupuhoh t1_jegk349 wrote

Yup lol. I was a 7 min ride to work and then moved up north to keep my job and now I'm 15-20 depending on weather. It's my max lol

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Itskialikethecar t1_jeggcr9 wrote

I drive 40 minutes from Waldoboro to Boothbay Harbor and back.

Depends on how much you love your job.

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Technical-Role-4346 t1_jegm5sj wrote

For context, one site says the average U.S. commute time is 27.6 minutes 41 miles. Their data for Maine shows 23.9 minutes (did they really do a survey?) If that job is a good stepping stone to something better and closer it might be a good deal. Others had great comments.

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bluecommet84 OP t1_jegnq82 wrote

All these comments are great and helpful thank you!

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Steelassault t1_jegv4mq wrote

I had this same dillema, drive about 45-50 minutes one way for work. Anything GPSd over 50 minutes was my comfort zone, probably just for the psychological factor. If you're talking about a pay bump from the $35k to $40k's, personally not worth it. If this is a jump from the higher end of average salary of $60k+ to a career jump of at least another $15k I would take it. Just depends on your family, your vehicle, and that you've thought it over.

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Total-Win-7687 t1_jegy2gw wrote

Nope. I commute 1.5 hours each way daily. Kennebunk to Augusta and back. Money is worth it. You just have to find some good podcasts to listen to during the drives.

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Total-Win-7687 t1_jegyszu wrote

I will add though, I’m making triple what my previous salary was. So to me, worth it.

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kcolli07 t1_jegz6bm wrote

It’s not worth it.

It may be tempting, but the opportunity cost… the exhaustion…. Weather and then needing to use PTO because the commute is MUCH too long to white knuckle it during the snow or rain… an hour and 15 is really at least an hour and a half with accounting for variables and needing to be on time, you’re constantly needing to buy gas….

In my opinion, it would be better to move closer or not take the job.

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KezarLake t1_jeh0a0a wrote

I used to commute 1 hour 15 minutes around Atlanta. It was all highway, but the draw-back was that there was always an accident and in the Atlanta area there are vey few alternate routes. When I moved back to Maine, I thought nothing of having a long commute, but I got tired of it quickly because I’m stuck on Route 1. I currently drive Brunswick to Rockland which is about 1 hour and 5 minutes…until the tourists come. Route 1 gets clogged and adds 15-30 minutes onto the commute. It really cuts into your day. Been looking to relocate but there’s not a lot of homes for sale in the Rockland area.

Realistically, I think Nobleboro to Portland is going to be a challenge. You’re going to see heavy traffic flow on Route 1 Memorial Day right through Fall foliage. Then you get to look forward to going to work in the dark and coming home in the dark. The winter will have it’s challenges too. There were a few nights this past winter that I had to get a hotel room because commuting that distance wasn’t safe or would take me several hours.

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Starbuksman t1_jeh1lnn wrote

Well; I walk downstairs and in to my office- some mornings that’s too far. Personally if I had to drive in- 15-20 min tops.

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EgoBruisers t1_jegjf01 wrote

It’s like being at work for over an extra week per month if you think about it. Would have to be a hell of a raise.

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Guygan t1_jegk2u1 wrote

How long is a piece of string?

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JeffInMaine t1_jegq0at wrote

Commuted an hour each way and it was exhausting. Felt like my whole life was on I 95.

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hike_me t1_jegqul2 wrote

Are you opposed to moving? I had a commute like that for a while and I hated it. It’s such a waste of time.

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bluecommet84 OP t1_jegxjs9 wrote

We own a house in Nobleboro, and my wife is close to her work from here. We also like were we live.

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normanapolis t1_jegzamd wrote

I could do that. I could do 90 minutes, no more than that.

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Chubby_but_pretty t1_jeh0kjf wrote

I drive an hour one way to work and have done it for 20+ years. If you plan for it, it’s fine. I get to live in a cost effective area ($800/mo mortgage for a 4 bedroom) and make a decent salary so my spouse doesn’t need to work. I also work somewhere that typically closes when the weather is bad and can work remotely 2 days a week. If I wanted to live closer to work, I wouldn’t be able to live in the town I work in and I wouldn’t make the salary I do now in my current town. It’s all about compromise.

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