Whitetooths t1_izchxc1 wrote
Reply to comment by teeleturtles in For anyone looking to help or give to the trans community of Maine, care package drive - MaineTransNet by teeleturtles
Junk food or a few toys or books is what I can donate?
teeleturtles OP t1_izcjw62 wrote
Money is good too. I think for right now its best practice to let the kids choose to a reasonable extent. I don't think we are taking public forum on this program right now. It's still in development and we tend to look internally for this kind of feedback so trans-friendly/culturally competent suggestions can take focus. If you'd like to get involved feel free to use mainetrans.net/volunteer
Whitetooths t1_izcln36 wrote
Would the money be spent on junk food and this lousy toy selection
Every_Deer6834 t1_izgmy1g wrote
Why do you hate joy and teens having snacks/things they enjoy? Like, real talk?
Whitetooths t1_izgq5ri wrote
I don't, that's why I'm wondering why the selection of items is so disappointing
DescriptionLocal4040 t1_izgt97u wrote
The wishlist is growing and changing as MTN gets more request. The snack selection was all picked by the teens in our program and there are also some things that are not being listed on the wishlist because we want to purchase them locally. The toys and books were also all selected by the teens. I was never really into things like stuffed animals as a teen but honestly I’m very glad that these kids are more into Squishmallows than the more dangerous activities I thought were cool at their age. I think it’s really important that we just listen to the teenagers about what they want to be gifted instead of telling them they have bad taste. Young people often feel so out of control so if they want to eat Doritos and be in charge of that than why not? If you have ideas for programming or interest in supporting youth in other ways please feel free to reach out to us! You can contact the youth programs team by emailing mtnyouth@mainetransnet.org - Sedum aka the person who processes the request for this program.
Whitetooths t1_izgyx41 wrote
Do they have to choose from a list? How could they possibly all requests the same few items
DescriptionLocal4040 t1_izh0y6d wrote
This is an interesting question. There is both a list to select from and an option to add whatever you want. The list was created by teens in ours program. They made a list of 19 common snack items. Because of how the form works it was significantly easier to have selectable items because we can just look at it and very easily go 18 kids want sour gummy candy instead of seeing 18 different ways of requesting sour gummy candy and having to sort through that. I’m very lucky to get to do a lot of problem solving with our youth around this project (and every other project) to make sure it’s both personalized and functional. And again we are buying a lot of stuff locally like pickle chips from Trader Joe’s and Samyang Instant Noodles from Veranda Asian Market. It doesn’t make a lot of sense to have someone mail us a single bag of chips from TJ’s but the young person who requested it will definitely get it in their care package. Also just want to take another moment to say our youth leadership is amazing. - Sedum
Whitetooths t1_izh2zoy wrote
All 19 kids didn't consider a healthy option
DescriptionLocal4040 t1_izh4g86 wrote
90+ kids actually. Dried fruit and seaweed are both on the list. Sadly we decided to not include trail/nut mixes because too many kids brought up themselves or siblings having tree nut allergies. Most of the kids didn’t like the idea of including granola/protein bars because the ones without tree nuts are honestly kind of bad and also generally not fun. The methodology for this program I think actually covers any genuine concern you might have about food wants being met outside of the fact that we can’t ship vegetables. If you have any ideas for solutions about further concerns you might have please let me know! Otherwise we have opted out of food policing a community that has higher chances of developing restrictive eating disorders than the rest of their peers. - Sedum
Whitetooths t1_izhbe1b wrote
So it's the adults that don't allow healthy food?
DescriptionLocal4040 t1_izhbsz3 wrote
I think you need to work on your reading comprehension before engaging further. I really appreciate some of your questions and being able to answer them and talk about how wonderful our youth leadership is. I would also suggest looking into some stuff around intuitive eating as it sounds like you are experiencing a lot of internalized food shame. Best of luck to you on your learning/healing journey!
Whitetooths t1_izhijlz wrote
It's not like its anthrax and some of these kids probably wants some nuts
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