Try playing playlists on your tv to set a mood. This is generally a good way to start. I was always a fan of listening to smooth jazz playlists, usually coffee shop type playlists. The mood they set might warm you over to music

Or any other type of music. Just ask yourself what mood or atmosphere you enjoy. Coffee shops, libraries, foreign places, or even alien space ships (lol, but cyrochamber has some great ones for these types of things).