Part of it can just be aesthetics and a female vocal range may be more appealing to you. Also a lot of music that has lyrics and themes that resonate with women will be written by women or write for a female artist. Obviously no artist will have fans of all one gender but for example Taylor Swift, Lizzo and Billie Eilish both write songs about the female experience that are probably more likely to resonate with women. But also hard to tell and it changed so much person to person. There are songs that are really catchy and fun and I like them even if the lyrics don’t appeal to me and it all just comes down to preference.