Trobus t1_ixk6zr8 wrote
Everything they wrote seems pretty straight forward to me, sometimes people don’t mesh. If you’re in a band that takes it seriously you have to spend a lot of time with each other, and you can usually tell pretty quick if it’s not going to work out. I’ve had situations from fist fights to better friendships, you never know what’s going to happen and it would be better to just take it as it is and move on. You mention you’ve met other people through them, and they themselves would be interested in working on your material with you, no reason to burn those bridges, that could give you a bad reputation and make it all that more difficult to do something in the future if you’re sticking around your city. Go to shows, meet more people, if you’re good enough chances are something will happen and you’ll find some people who are about what you do and want to make music with you.
Rasta-Grandpa t1_ixmmbco wrote
“The vibes just weren’t right” “We wanted to be honest”
You have to pick one. You can’t get both
Trobus t1_ixmrhbu wrote
Not really picking up what you’re saying, they’re not being honest about the vibes they were feeling? They obviously felt something to kick you out of the band, even if you thought it was all good doesn’t mean that was their perspective.
Rasta-Grandpa t1_ixmvuuy wrote
I’m saying “wrong vibes” is really not an actual reasoning. You could get a lot more specific but they don’t want to come out with that.
The idea that they would kick me out based on “vibes” is so much BS. It’s either they are being honest or they are not.
Trobus t1_ixmwt5a wrote
Okay, I feel you, I would have been more direct but I’m also kind of blunt when it comes to that sort of thing. To me it sounds like they were trying to be as nice as possible, which shows they care about your feelings, no reason why you can’t reach out and ask what specifically was off if that’s something you really want to know.
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