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Musikaravaa t1_iy5nasn wrote

Reply to comment by dumbbinch99 in Are you able to separate the music from the musician? by RickTheDad1

Serial dated a bunch of dudes to write songs about the eventual break ups

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dumbbinch99 t1_iy5njpt wrote

Or she dated around like a normal young person….y’all are delusional if you think that’s on par with sex crimes and domestic violence.

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NosyargKcid t1_iy5tbxg wrote

That was definitely said tongue-in-cheek, they weren't seriously considering the two to be on par. Calm down

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dumbbinch99 t1_iy5u31o wrote

Even if that was true, which it doesn’t really seem like, dating is not a thing that would require me having to separate the art from the artist??? It’s just the fucking slut shaming that we really should be past at this point

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Musikaravaa t1_iy5so72 wrote

Yeeaaaah, I didn't date around like that as a young person. I had the same boyfriend from 15-19 and then was with the next guy for 10 years.

Also, refrain from correcting people with a username like that, yikes.

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dumbbinch99 t1_iy5tiho wrote

Congrats, but literally no one cares? Like what does you choosing to stay with one person for ten years mean at all in any of this? “Taylor dated more people than I did, so she and Chris brown are the same 😤”

Also bringing up my joke Reddit username of all things as some sort of gotcha is pretty damn cringey

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Musikaravaa t1_iy5uhm8 wrote

The way you present yourself matters. I don't care what some chick with the username "dumbbinch99" thinks on any level, shes's already called herself dumb.

It is my opinion that Taylor Swift sets an inappropriate "okayness" with serial dating and that she's emotionally abusing the men that she has used in this way. It's not the same as Domestic Abuse, at all. I say this as having been a victim of emotional abuse from members of my family, I can say it's degrading and leaves long-lasting emotional scars. When someone hits you, you KNOW it's time to leave.

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dumbbinch99 t1_iy5v74i wrote

I see you take Reddit very seriously. I guess it makes sense if you have nothing else of value in your life.

Bruh she was literally just dating. Lots of people, including lots of celebrities, have lots of exes. Relationships just don’t work out. But yeah these men were totally victims of emotional abuse and her evil womanly ways 🥺 i don’t care about your home life, I experienced sexual, physical, and emotional abuse from childhood on and I’m not here pretending like this women dumping people is on par with anything like that

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Musikaravaa t1_iy5veje wrote

I take human interactions pretty seriously, in general. You should too.

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dumbbinch99 t1_iy5w2oj wrote

Yeah it makes sense that you’d have such a giant stick up your ass

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pussyknife t1_iy5u88y wrote

So…..everyone should live life exactly like you or they’re a terrible person? Get over yourself

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Musikaravaa t1_iy5uq99 wrote

No, that's not what I said. I explanded my comment to dumbbinch99 with some context there. I'm not going to re-type it for you.

I like how all of the reddit avatars jumping to this defense look EXACTLY like little Taylor clones.

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pussyknife t1_iy5whn4 wrote

“Hmmm no I didn’t date around though” is what you said in comment I replied to. And your comment to the other person is equally dumb. You really are Reddit obsessed, bringing up peoples avatars and usernames and shit

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Musikaravaa t1_iy5yozl wrote

You can tell a lot more than you think about a person by how they choose to present themselves online.

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pussyknife t1_iy603x3 wrote

True, like how you come off as a raging misogynist

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Musikaravaa t1_iy61lw6 wrote

See! You're figuring it out! You're 100% right. I choose male doctors over female doctors, even for gynecology appointments. I don't like or trust women most of the time. It's a huge issue for me, and I have to work very consciously to overcome it.

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pussyknife t1_iy62lm7 wrote

You can chose whatever doctors you want, but Taylor swift and Chris brown are not the same because Taylor swift has had more boyfriends than you, you clown

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6132133532 t1_iy5t33i wrote

I mean, I’m sure you’re not the commodity tSweezy would have been in the adolescent dating market. As a fella from the sticks… the fact that she was allowed to date so many dudes at that age already negates her debutante southern Belle cred. Just had to put my two cents in your “oh Taylor swift did.. well I…” statement 😂

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Musikaravaa t1_iy5vaec wrote

Oh lord, WHAT a good point. I hadn't even considered that, hahaha.

It's not a "well I" sort of statement, though y'all are reading it that way.

It's more of a "actually girls don't always date like tha,t" and I thinkit'ss delusional to think some little girl serial dating like that is normal. Especially considering her mental health struggles, comes across more like acting out or trying to fix herself by using someone else, but that's me reading WAY too into it.

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6132133532 t1_iy5wpx9 wrote

Tbh, I am Taylor swifts age and I remember hearing her stuff at 16, and a few of the songs resonated… I think, most of what came out after 2011 was not her writing… like she got big at 15 then plug writers to sell hits and create a superstar lol, that’s been my narrative of her for… 13 years anyways haha

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Musikaravaa t1_iy5yejo wrote

I've gotta be at least 10 years older than most of her fan-base, never was into her. That's a good point though! I'd HOPE your narrative is right.

Honestly this engagement sucks. I was hoping to discuss whether or not Die Antwoord was actually guilty of the stuff they're accused of doing, not crap-ass Tay-Tay.

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Boxofbikeparts t1_iy70h3v wrote

Sooo....you're really Angela from The Office, and Taylor Swift is acting whorish, lol.

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Musikaravaa t1_iy83v6x wrote

I didn't watch The Office so I don't get this reference.

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