First rule of getting away with it is - Be a man.

Second rule is - Don't be a woman, that makes you a bitch.

There can be exceptions but those are the rules.

Music history is full of women getting shafted in a man's world. Courtney Love & Madonna are a couple of prime examples.

Courtney got blamed for Kurt losing his head and then got shafted again for speaking out against Harvey Weinstein (years ago when her acting career was on the rise)

Madonna has always been made to look like a bitch for the crime of being outspoken.

If Either one had been a man they would be rock gods!