Submitted by KyaDash t3_10uf5y4 in Pennsylvania
I have for the past several years acted as the caregiver for my father, and in recent months have been working towards potentially legally being recognized as such to have some sort of income rather than just only burning my life away and taking on increasingly more burden with 0 money to actually show for anything.
However, on that note, on a random discussion, a point came up that has me quite worried.
Is it true that, were I to become a legal caregiver/care management provider/etcetcetc, that once/if the care receiver passes(my father) that the state or otherwise will take the house in payment or similar? As of current, the mortgage is paid off, and it's just been a matter of keeping on top of bills and taxes, and actually having some sort of positive outlook for myself instead of having my existence put entirely on hold for the sake of others would be genuinely nice, but if it would lead to being out of a home or otherwise at the end of everything, it feels like it'd be a horrid mistake in the making.
It was suggest that I ask this over here for some potential in-state responses from /r/caregivers , the post of which can be found here
I apologize if this isn't a good fit for this sub, but just trying to get some input if possible.
ohtheinsandy t1_j7ch3h4 wrote
Hello, I’m a previous PA state worker in Long Term Care Medicaid, and I worked for a nursing home getting Medicaid for our residents, so I have experience here, but not as a caregiver.
The short answer is, yes, there is a way you can get to keep the house after your father passes, but I would definitely seek out an elder care attorney to make sure it’s done right. (Look for a lawyer that specializes in elder care - I wouldn’t trust any other kind in this situation. I have met way too many lawyers who will do what you ask but have zero experience)
The long answer: If your father uses Medicaid (not Medicare) to pay for a caregiver, that is considered Long Term Care and he is subject to estate recovery after he passes. I assume this is what you’re seeking - it is very common for family to seek getting payment for caregiving, because it is more than a full time job in of itself. This is called Home and Community Based Services (HCBS) or “waiver services” in PA. Estate recovery means that PA will try to recoup expenses from any assets your father may have left after he passes, which can include the house.
However, there is a guideline in Medicaid rules that a house can be transferred to you without penalty in this very specific situation: -must be a son or daughter of the Medicaid recipient -must have lived in the recipient’s house for at least 2 years -must have provided care to the recipient that prevented the recipient from having to go to a nursing facility (verified with a letter from a doctor)
I’ve seen this referred to as the caregiver exception. This exception exists, I believe, because Long Term Care is very expensive for the state. So if you can prove that you’ve basically saved them money by providing caregiving for at least two years prior, that is at least worth the value of the house to them.
I don’t know how long you’ve been living in your father’s house, but it sounds like you would qualify for this exception. I would start this process ASAP, even if he’s not on Medicaid yet.
Again, DEFINITELY go through an elder care attorney to get this set up, so it’s all done correctly. But feel free to ask me any questions if there’s anything I missed.