What gets me is the whole “well, they are one of the good ones” spiel. Apply that to sexuality, race, religion, etc.

What they are really saying is “I know this person and like them, but all the others like them are scum”.

I’ve seen it with my wife who is half black. I have seen it with a lesbian couple she is friends with. “Well, they’re fine but that’s not what I meant”. Yes the fuck it is, assholes.