vodkanipples OP t1_iqnxgzx wrote on October 1, 2022 at 8:08 PM

I think I'm being misunderstood. I've had bad experiences in the past with doctors, for example I have a recurring problem ( every 8-10 years) the last time it happened I went to a doctor and told them my history and that I knew what needed to be done, all I needed was some testing to confirm and the procedure done. I was told that they were the doctor and they would decide what was wrong with me with the shittiest tone affirming that they were in charge. That's all I'm trying to avoid. Just want a good friendly doctor who actually listenes, someone who cares more about the patient than their ego.

techsavior t1_iqo6zrd wrote on October 1, 2022 at 9:17 PM

If you’re coming in off the street, they’re gonna want to run some tests. I’ve had the asshole doctor and practice experience (North Prov Primary Care), but you also get out what you put into it. If you walk in with a full head of steam and demand something, they’re not gonna listen to you.

Distinct-Ad5751 t1_iqohdfm wrote on October 1, 2022 at 10:35 PM

If you don’t mind a bit of travel, the PA I see in Waterford CT is fantastic. I had an undiagnosed issue they found and literally saved my life. I was hesitant to see any Dr after being ignored and dismissed and my PA was very understanding.

You can DM me for contact info.

vodkanipples OP t1_iqokma2 wrote on October 1, 2022 at 11:01 PM

I thank you for your recommendation but CT is a bit far, I find it hard to believe that I can't find a local doctor without an ego problem.

Distinct-Ad5751 t1_iqokvou wrote on October 1, 2022 at 11:03 PM

The problem is the number of Drs accepting new patients- and finding someone you connect with. I know CT is far, but if you come up empty feel free to reach out. My PA was originally in Westerly and moved, I followed her.

I hope you find someone soon!

vodkanipples OP t1_iqoleyg wrote on October 1, 2022 at 11:07 PM

I truly appreciate your help. Everyone else has treated me like this is Twitter and I made a political statement. If I can't find someone locally I will dm you.

Distinct-Ad5751 t1_iqp6dv5 wrote on October 2, 2022 at 1:56 AM

I’ve been in a similar situation; I think the critics don’t understand how stressful this is. Anyway reach out if you need.