Child support is paid out to the custodial parent. 50/50 there is no custodial parent meaning you're both equally responsible. I have a friend with split custody and CSO was ended the day it was ordered. You may be paying into health insurance but I highly doubt one parent is financially responsible when they share the same time with said child. Not everything goes as smooth as your case may have. I know 10x more people with issues then ones who don't. Congrats on your success but not all of us are that lucky. No need to lie.