DroidScribe t1_iu9aiqn wrote on October 29, 2022 at 3:41 PM

Reply to comment by RagdollEnthusiast in A girl leaving her boyfriend for a guy with a bigger dick is the same as a guy leaving his girlfriend for one with bigger boobs. by [deleted]

Again, I wholeheartedly agree. But also you should respect other people's right to be superficial and not whine about it. Especially if you're lucky for someone to actually honestly admit they're leaving someone due to aesthetic qualms.

RagdollEnthusiast t1_iu9ewoz wrote on October 29, 2022 at 4:13 PM

Oh I completely accept it, and I've dumped both men and women for these reasons and worse. We can be as superficial as we want and I have been many times. I don't think many of the people commenting here understand that something can be terrible but still be fine. I didn't say "don't dump someone for having small tits" I said "hey dumping someone for this thing is equally as shitty as this thing", because I don't think most people realize it. You say something is bad, and everyone assumes you're saying not to do it.

DroidScribe t1_iu9fyhc wrote on October 29, 2022 at 4:20 PM

Gotcha. And I agree. I mostly disagree with the implication that boob and dick size are factors that cannot be altered. They can. I also think altering your appearance to stay in a relationship with a shallow significant other is ridiculous and not worth it. You should acknowledge their right to be shallow and send them on their merry way. Somewhere there is a person who likes your dick and/or boobs just the way they are.

RagdollEnthusiast t1_iu9hd8b wrote on October 29, 2022 at 4:30 PM

Exactly! I usually don't even consider changing yourself surgically to be with someone, because if they're leaving you over this than you've clearly already decided not to change these things about yourself and they are being incredibly shallow and hurting that persons feelings. But alas, oh well! You'll both find better people. I had just never heard someone treat leaving a woman for her boob size the same as leaving a man for the size of his dick, and the realization hit me while I was on reddit.