Exactly! I usually don't even consider changing yourself surgically to be with someone, because if they're leaving you over this than you've clearly already decided not to change these things about yourself and they are being incredibly shallow and hurting that persons feelings. But alas, oh well! You'll both find better people. I had just never heard someone treat leaving a woman for her boob size the same as leaving a man for the size of his dick, and the realization hit me while I was on reddit.