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Sunstang t1_iyf407i wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in Obsessing about if something is masculine or not is one of the least masculine things an individual can do. by ZenMonkey47

That's so ridiculously the inverse of the truth, I can't tell if you're crazy or joking. Gay men don't give a fuck whether something is masculine or not. It's insecure straight guys that are constantly self policing in the perpetual fear of not being seen as adequately masculine.

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humanbeyblade t1_iyf7x70 wrote

Exactly. Everyone is insecure for different reasons, but if heterosexual, masculine men weren't insecure, they wouldn't mind being around queers, using typically feminine objects/phrases/actions, and they wouldn't feel the need to give other people shit for being them. Projection is an outcome of insecurity

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