As an adoptee, there is a curiosity... Met my bio mom once but not my bio dad yet. I think my adoptive mom feels insecure but I have a natural curiosity. What's wrong with wanting to know where I come from and what my bio parents went through? I don't expect to be best friends but periodic contact would be nice even if sparse... (it has fallen off recently, perhaps this is something I just have to accept.) The world seems to be just chaos, and I'm trying to make sense of it.