It’s interesting, comparing the PNW with the Midwest. I’ve lived in both, so here’s my take. If you are friendly, people are friendly. I’ve actually had more hostility towards me come from the Midwest. “Gay loving tree hugger” has been muttered. But anywhere you go, if you make the effort, you’ll find your tribe. We are actually looking to move out of Seattle and are considering Olympia. We like the uniqueness of the downtown/waterfront area. And you definitely get more bang for your buck there.