Ralphs diner is trans friendly and a bar. They have really great bands play there. Its a really diverse crowd there and different nights have different events. They do poetry slams on mondays, open mic comedies on tuesdays, karaoke on Wednesdays, then thursdays changes up, sometimes metal shows, punk, Harleys drag show, fridays and saturdays also have all kinds of bands play there. Even if you arent interested in the shows upstairs, you can hang out downstairs or on the patio.