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DfcukinLite t1_j6ud7gz wrote

Socially speaking, Baltimore is the friendliest and easiest city on the east coast to make real friends/relationship and connections imho. It’s not super transient as say DC/NYC, so it’s always better to make native Baltimore metro area acquaintances/friends to really get an understanding of how things work here and be in the “know”. People are genuinely interested in the real you here and not the pretensions/social climbing aspects you can provide that’s found in the more Type-A ‘see and be seen’ cities— cough cough DC. We’re all weirdos here, just a matter of your weird messing well with our weird and finding your tribe. There’s something here for everyone!

I love that there’s no pressure to always be “on” here. I’ve lived in other cities and that lifestyle while fun is really fcuking exhausting. I like that the going out scene here is relaxed and not uptight/showy. This a bar city with good dance floors, not to much a club city. People have money, titles, education, and accolades but they won’t throw it in your face every chance they get here and that stuff generally is not the topic of conversation when meeting people or otherwise. People will speak to you in the streets in passing or standing in lines.

Richmond is Baltimore’s little southern half-sister city. I find both cities to be similar in many ways except Baltimore is bigger. The demographics are similar. As is the city relationships with the greater county surrounding it. Richmond to me is Virginia’s only true “real” city. The others are just glorified suburban towns. I suspect you’ll do just fine here and love it as long as you keep an open mind and heart.

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9to5Voyager OP t1_j6uqwpa wrote

See that was kind of my impression. I've heard that Richmond's a mini-Baltimore and I can definitely see it. Richmond's not bad at all, but Baltimore seems like a more "complete" city, with better access to other places and just more career opportunities. I'll go to a club, but I'm more of a bar/dancehall type anyway so that's awesome. Thanks for your input, I appreciate you!

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susierabbit t1_j6ugva4 wrote

Native Baltimorean here. I went to college in Richmond and came back to Baltimore after graduating. I made great friends while in college and those friendships are still in my life today. When I returned to Baltimore, I still had my dear friends but also made great friends with others. Baltimore really has a lot of great and friendly people. I can’t say I met any assholes just good caring people.

I missed the charm of Richmond and returned but I had my college friends so I was welcomed back. My friends from my career are still in my life but the friends I met because of my children are dear friends.

I think you will love Baltimore but if you find it is too big of a city for you, Richmond will welcome you back.

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9to5Voyager OP t1_j6ur3w7 wrote

Ha, the old "Richmond Boomerang." Yeah Richmond is not *bad,* in fact I like it way better than Atlanta. But I think Baltimore may be the perfect size for me. Thanks for your response!

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OtherExperience9179 t1_j6ye8ty wrote

As someone who moved here more recently, if you have any tips on making those real connections/friendships here let me know 🫠

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DfcukinLite t1_j6z0bqe wrote

What’s your scene?

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OtherExperience9179 t1_j6z8dx2 wrote

Late 20s, married, we enjoy going out for food, drinks, game nights, whatever. I am in Highlandtown area as well.

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captain_smonch t1_j72ckh9 wrote

Volunteer, join board game groups/meet ups (check out No Land Beyond and Canton Games for some of those). Basically any sort of hobby-based activity! I moved to Baltimore in 2016 and have made a great community of friends from primarily volunteering and running groups, basically anything that gets you out doing things with other people.

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