aquarius-princess t1_j6y1iwx wrote on February 2, 2023 at 6:22 PM

Reading comments is such a confidence killer lol. I’ve been here for about 2 years now & I feel so isolated because I have yet to find “my tribe”. Personally I’ve lived in the Carolinas & will say I miss the “Southern hospitality” or overall energy so much. It can just be lonely at times, living in such a bustling city yet never feeling like you can find where you fit in. However I will say despite the social life, I’m always able to find new places to go explore & have fun- by myself & with my dog! That’s definitely a perk. And hey, maybe I’m just an introvert lol, who knows. Im glad so many other people have found their people in this lovely city.

9to5Voyager OP t1_j6y20t3 wrote on February 2, 2023 at 6:25 PM

I'm sorry to hear that, but you've got the inner resource to do your own thing until your tribe comes along. Honestly, I feel the exact same way in Richmond. Just kind of isolated. I have met many people but they've all got their own tribes going on and it's just not the same.

Edit: I'm an Aquarius as well and I think that may be part of it. We're kind of known for doing our own thing. Still better with friends though!