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WomanNotAGirl t1_jab7ynw wrote

Reply to comment by Sea_Concentrate_6543 in What is your guilty pleasure? by Sea_Concentrate_6543

I’m aware. It has shame attached to it. I refuse to feel shame for things I personally enjoy.

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iambluest t1_jab8yza wrote

So what are some of those things?

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WomanNotAGirl t1_jab9u2g wrote

I like some of Justin Bieber’s songs.

I am unintentionally loud when I’m pleasured during sex and I don’t care if people hears me ie: roommates and stuff

I like TikTok a lot

I like cheerios and juice boxes

I like watching cartoons

I procrastinate and I’m more productive when I work on something the last minute

I love reality tv shows

Though I am not a die hard fan, I like Kim kardashian

Edit:

Guilty pleasures are activities, products, or habits that a person participates in because it brings them joy, yet it also makes them feel slight shame

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iambluest t1_jabaaoj wrote

I'm 'guilty' of most of those myself.

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WomanNotAGirl t1_jabbvtj wrote

It’s all good. Doesn’t mean I don’t have substance. As one psychologists said it’s good to have those things. They are “mostly” healthy coping mechanisms. I’m big on looking at where terms come and on purpose trying to reframe them.

Like the term male dominated industry actually means an industry that’s refusing to adapt to accommodate women into it. I should know I’ve worked in such field for years.

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iambluest t1_jabcozu wrote

I just retired from a female dominated trade in public education.

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WomanNotAGirl t1_jabd17p wrote

I hear that’s very difficult as well. Curious to hear your experience.

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iambluest t1_jabh8cm wrote

It was good, I got lucky and worked with a good group of people. I may have been blind to things.

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