Submitted by DerpiestLilDhampir t3_11cztrm in books
Jane Leslie Conly's "While No One Was Watching." Three children are left in the care of an aunt while their dad and his girlfriend work extra hard to afford a new home. However, when the aunt disappears, the children are left to fend for themselves. The eldest, Earl, winds up joining an unscrupulous cousin in illegal work (like bike theft), but things gradually got more dangerous. The book eventually ends on a happy note, though only after the kids had to endure the hardship of neglect.
The book stuck with me, because it addresses a scenario I could relate to; following the divorce of my parents, when I was little, my father at some point allowed my incubator to take me out of state for the summer of 2000. What followed was a temporary visit with the grandparents on her side of the family in Texas, before being left with some family in Kansas that she only knew through a peer in the military. Some bad things happened that I don't fully recall, nor care to, but ultimately my dad and his father had to rush over from our home state to save me from being put into the foster system; incubator had rarely visited, after leaving me in the care of those strangers, and she eventually disappeared for the remainder of that year (the mother of the strange family couldn't even get in contact with my egg donor, anymore). Needless to say, anytime egg donor contacted again and tried to ask for me or my sisters to go visit her, my dad refused for our safeties.
It's a bit of an epiphany for me, lately, when revisiting this book made me realize how I was able to relate to it with my own experiences of neglect, during my childhood. My physical copy of this novel is showing its age, but regardless will remain in my personal library for how much I connected with it.
TomSF t1_ja5xy24 wrote
My side of the mountain. Always have loved this book.