Dude, thanks for taking the time to hear me. I totally came off bitchy and I apologize. oops

Yeah good point. I guess I was trying to shock and awe her out of a navel-gazing loop and honestly, my advice was hard won. The worst, hardest, deepest trenches of my own suffering were allayed with the simple trick of turning all that energy outward. Help others.

And that was my (failed) attempt of a post. Hope OP reads this and forgives. I meant it all in a good way. Good luck for reals, all of us ✌️