Seannan McGuire does not write SA. At all. In her Incryptid series a female character is kidnapped and stripped naked. And she still isn't SAd.

You also won't get explicit sex scenes. She doesn't really write those. But the romance in her series are so good, sweet and so believable.

If you want fantasy with explicit sex scenes, T. Kingfisher's Saint of Steel series is awesome for that. No SA, and all the romance.