voornaam1 t1_iu5725i wrote on October 28, 2022 at 5:07 PM

I've noticed that especially in gay stuff there's a lot of dubcon and stuff, it seems to be rare to find men who willingly bottom.

CrazyCatLady108 t1_iu57bir wrote on October 28, 2022 at 5:09 PM

hop on over to /r/MM_RomanceBooks they will supply you with plenty of books you are struggling to find. they are fairly active and very friendly.

voornaam1 t1_iu5cmqs wrote on October 28, 2022 at 5:44 PM

Forgot I was on the books subreddit and thought this was about any media. I haven't tried a lot of gay books yet, I was mainly talking about anime and manga. I've especially watched a lot of gay anime, but unless they have no sex they all had dubcon.

Thanks for the subreddit suggestion though!

CrazyCatLady108 t1_iu5ixd0 wrote on October 28, 2022 at 6:27 PM

i don't read romance at all as a genre, but i love visiting that sub for discussion. people seem less judgmental and less defensive than in more general subs, so the atmosphere is more positive.

so i hope you find some good things to read that have something that is lacking in other media. :)

nyet-marionetka t1_iu7ez7h wrote on October 29, 2022 at 3:07 AM

That’s that genre (anime/manga). There is a bunch of other media that doesn’t have that approach.