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one_dollar_poop_joke t1_iyaakja wrote

Just throwing this out there: that light shoulder touch greatly annoys me. Whenever someone does it, it makes me feel like they are the kind of person that is imploring a tactic to win me over; it is uncomfortable and transparently inauthentic.

But that's just me! Maybe it works on some people.

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Trick-Two497 t1_iyalacs wrote

It's more than annoying to me. It's a boundary issue, a red flag that this person is not respectful or trustworthy.

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one_dollar_poop_joke t1_iyamdnk wrote

I'm right there with you. I am extending my hand for you to shake it. That means I'm cool with you touching my hand, not my shoulder, my elbow, my knees or my ass.

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