I love this question because it's DANGEROUS. I hate when I see people become chummy with their subjects these days. It shows how easily manipulated they are, and also, strangely, puts the subject in a bad position. There's a way to do something good and kind without extending friendship. I've been out of the game for two years now, which hurts! So I really shouldn't say anything. And yet I did! Luckily, there are a lot of great ones still out there. I hope to rejoin their ranks soon, and I hope I can still write a good one! - Taffy