Totally agree about not blaming her, I read Lucky the non fiction account of her rape. It was horrible in every way you imagine it to be. As you say there are two very flawed systems at work here. From memory she walked past him and was blind sided by her reaction and 100% sure it was him. Pretty obviously a trauma response but damn the guy lost like 20 years of his life to that. Didn't know about her response whole thing is just sad really 😔