This...I want this at my funeral, plus the open gin and tonic bar. Plus, a barrel of salt and vinegar chips at the entrance, a few double layered mirror chocolate cakes, and a bouquet of lilacs in a vase near my urn.

Sorry for your loss. FWIW, When my dad passed, I read the book: Fatherloss, and even though it's focused on men losing their fathers, it really helped me too.

Brighter days ahead, friend.