My husband is a software engineer and worked fully remote for a small startup/government contractor before the pandemic. In fact, they were in the process of opening their first small office when the pandemic hit.

I’m also a software engineer and would wfh when I had an appointment, at the end of my pregnancy, when my kid was sick or on a random Friday because I felt like it, but I was in the office more often than not and regular WFH weren’t super common.