I understand and yes I agree two months isn’t long. I talked to her about it and she said she’d like that. I have also talked to her friends and therapist as well as her siblings and we’ve all agreed that taking her out is a classic way of getting her reved up again. I know she misses going out and having an excuse to doll herself up. I don’t expect anything out of it except to see her brighten up a little and that things will be ok. That I got her and that I’m with her. Thank you for advice though but I’m trying. I’m proposing to her in a few months (March, the month we met). I thought of doing it sooner but then everything happened plus I find proposals during the holidays a bit cheesy NGL. I wanted her to properly mourn her mom not have her memory distracted by my own things. I did tell her mom I would propose to her before she passed and she was very happy about it and gave me her blessing. She said I was right to not propose to her sooner as honestly her mom’s cancer remission took us by surprise. Before she passed she gave me advice on how to work with my girlfriend and we agreed taking her out is one of the things that works.