You spoke a lot of what you don’t like about Boston and the people, but maybe you could also share what you DO like and folks here may have some good specific resources or ideas. Common interests/hobbies would be a good starting point to make connections. Also, there are frequent posts from others who have struggled to find friends here, so it appears to be a common theme in this city, unfortunately. It could also be that you have outgrown Boston and it is time to move on. Depends on whether you have the motivation and energy to keep trying or are up for a new adventure in a new (warmer lol) city.