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t_hr t1_j5zle8g wrote

How old are you?

Club Cafe is gay. Queereoke at the Midway is very queer but tends to be a lot of AFAB people. Both pretty young scenes. This Sunday in JP there's a meeting of the Cambridge Men's Group (https://www.meetup.com/cambridgemen/events/289639090/) presumably a bit of an older crowd. There are also a few "OUT at Time Out" events coming up, just search gay men's Boston on meetup and you'll find some stuff.

If you already have good hobbies for meetup groups (frisbee, dog groups, board games, etc) just go to the things you enjoy. Boston is a pretty gay place, usually there will be another gay guy in the group and depending on how good your 'dar is you can just chat them up.

Uninstall grindr. Try Hinge, tends to be a bit more relationship oriented. Bumble could also work. If you're kinky, might even want to give AFF/Fet a try.

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wwoliver04 t1_j5zx6ce wrote

Everyone hates on it but tinder is great for making friends too, you get out of it what you put into it. Also second for Club Café, they do different theme nights and usually bring in a range of different crowds

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