XSX is better value with Game Pass Ultimate (GPU) as there are so many gems you get to try without expecting it, plus you can play co-op on 2 machines (Xbox and PC for example) with 1 susbcription.

PS5 is better for single player games (not saying xbox doesnt have any mind you) and third party optimised games due likely because of easier to use dev kits and only having 1 software development kit for a single hardware. Plus they also have PSVR2 now!

This coming from someone who owns all 3 consoles and a beefy PC.

But really, you can't go wrong with any. The best console is the one with the games that you like.